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Separating fact from fiction in sexual wellness
There is a lot of misinformation out there about pleasure products. Let us set the record straight on some of the most common myths that stop people from exploring what works for them.
THE MYTH:
If you need toys, there is something wrong with you or your relationship.
THE TRUTH:
Pleasure products are enhancement tools, not replacement therapy. Using toys is no different from using any other tool to improve your experience - like wearing glasses to see better or using a mixer to bake. They add variety, exploration, and new sensations. Most people who use toys do so because they enhance pleasure, not because anything is lacking.
THE MYTH:
If you introduce toys into a relationship, your partner will feel replaced or inadequate.
THE TRUTH:
Toys cannot replace human connection, intimacy, or emotional bonding. They are tools that can enhance shared experiences. Many couples find that incorporating toys brings them closer together through exploration and communication. It is about adding to the experience, not replacing anything.
THE MYTH:
Regular use of vibrators will desensitise you and make it impossible to enjoy pleasure without them.
THE TRUTH:
This is one of the most persistent myths and it is completely false. Temporary numbness can occur immediately after extended use (just like your hand goes numb if you lean on it), but this fades within minutes to hours. There is no evidence that vibrator use causes permanent desensitisation. Your body adapts and returns to baseline sensitivity quickly.
THE MYTH:
You should get the largest product possible for maximum pleasure.
THE TRUTH:
Size is highly individual and bigger often is not better. Anatomy varies greatly from person to person. What matters most is finding the right fit and shape for your body. Many people prefer smaller, more targeted options. Starting with something too large can be uncomfortable and put you off entirely. Start modest and work up if desired.
THE MYTH:
Once you are in a relationship, you should not need or want toys anymore.
THE TRUTH:
Statistics show that people in relationships are actually more likely to use pleasure products than single people. Toys can enhance partnered experiences, help partners learn about each other, and add variety to long-term relationships. Many products are specifically designed for couple use. Being in a relationship does not mean your exploration should stop.
THE MYTH:
All pleasure products are basically the same, so you might as well buy the cheapest option.
THE TRUTH:
Quality matters significantly when it comes to products that contact your body. Cheap products often use unsafe materials like jelly rubber or PVC that contain phthalates and other harmful chemicals. They also break more easily and have weaker motors. Investing in body-safe materials (medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, glass, stainless steel) protects your health and provides better experiences. You do not need the most expensive option, but avoiding the cheapest tier is wise.
THE MYTH:
Pleasure products can only be used exactly as advertised or as intended by the manufacturer.
THE TRUTH:
While products are designed with specific uses in mind, experimentation is encouraged. Many people discover alternative uses that work better for their bodies. A wand designed for external use might feel great for body massage. A curved internal vibrator might work well externally. As long as you are using body-safe products and following basic safety guidelines, explore what feels good to you.
Most myths about pleasure products stem from stigma, misinformation, and outdated ideas about sexuality. The truth is simple: pleasure products are tools for exploration, enhancement, and self-discovery. There is nothing wrong, shameful, or dangerous about using them responsibly.
Your body, your pleasure, your choice. Do not let myths hold you back from exploring what works for you.